To unlove is to love.
- Mayo Ortiz
- Mar 27, 2020
- 1 min read
It is okay to let him go. It is okay to choose to be happy. If you feel he is limiting you or somewhat makes you choose to feel you are limited and unhappy, set him free or cut that invisible string that connects you to the feeling of stagnation, the feeling that somehow it stops happiness to flow and flow. It is okay to let the person you love go. Letting him go does not mean your love is lesser than the love of a person who chooses to stay.
Letting him go also shows how much you love...yourself. That readiness to decide on things that will show how much you choose what’s good for yourself has to always be in tact. The decision to always choose yourself first, to stand up for yourself, to consider the things that will make you happy and aligned in love has to be made...all the time. One has to choose happiness, if one desires it. It is an everyday decision. To unlove is to love.
Love is very interesting. It can bring healing as well as it can shatter life. To which is which we want to choose? For to love is not choosing what only to love, but love is the readiness to experience both the thorn and the rose. As long as the source of love remains faithful, then we can always make love - the love that heals.