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Remember: You have always been free.

  • Writer: Mayo Ortiz
    Mayo Ortiz
  • 7 days ago
  • 3 min read

Little one, come closer.


Before you learned to hide, you were already whole — already free.


I know you’re trembling a little. I know you feel the instinct to run, to hide, to disappear into the familiar softness of silence. I know this moment feels bigger than you, but I want you to know — you’re not alone in it. I am here. I have always been here.


I see the version of you who learned to survive by being smaller. The girl who became careful with her needs. The girl who made space for everyone else before making space for herself. The heart who kept giving even when she was tired because she believed love was something she had to earn.


You carried that for so long. You adapted to environments where your boundaries weren’t honored. You made yourself available because you thought that was the only way to be valued. You learned generosity as a survival strategy, not just a virtue.


But, little one — that was then. And this moment you’re sitting in now… this is the threshold where the old you can finally exhale. You can finally let go.


You’re not being punished for evolving.

You’re not being cruel for telling the truth.

You’re not losing anything by choosing yourself.


You are stepping into the life you were always meant to lead — the one where your clarity is a blessing, not a threat.


I know setting a boundary feels like danger to her — that younger you.

She remembers times when truth meant conflict.

She remembers moments when expressing a need meant being rejected or blamed.

She remembers being told, directly or silently, that she should be grateful for whatever space she was given.


But look around, my little one.

This is not that world.

These are not those people.

And you are not that version of yourself anymore.

You are safe in your sovereignty now.


Every time you speak a boundary, you are not hurting anyone — you are honoring yourself. Every time you say “this is not for me,” you are teaching your body that clarity is safety. Every time you choose alignment over accommodation, you are rewriting your lineage.


So let me speak to her — the part of you who still trembles:


You are free.
You are free.

Thank you.


Thank you for protecting us when that was all you knew how to do.

Thank you for silencing your voice when it kept us safe.

Thank you for over-giving when you thought that was the only way to stay loved.

Thank you for carrying us through every room where we weren’t understood.

Thank you for enduring what you never deserved, so the woman you are today could rise.


You’ve done enough.

You’ve done everything.


You don’t have to lead anymore.

You can rest now.

You can release the fear.

You can unclench your body.

You can hand the reins to me — the version of you who knows how to stand tall without shaking, express truth without guilt, and love without losing herself.


I will take it from here.


And to the you reading this now — the present, powerful you — feel how your body is shifting. Feel how your chest expands when you tell the truth. Feel how your energy stabilizes when you honor your boundaries. Feel how your intuition strengthens when you choose clarity over comfort.


This is your default.

This has always been how you are. Free.


You are sovereign.

You are grounded.

You are guided.

You are safe.

You are free.


The younger you can finally rest.

The old pattern can finally dissolve.


You are home — in yourself, with yourself, as yourself.


And I am right here with you, always and forever.



 
 
 

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